I’ve read enough fanfiction where this happened. I’m sorry, but I won’t go through them now just to proof it. If you read enough you may stumble upon some sooner or later. (Some start with explaining that there was some fight so Peppers gone, rhodey often isn’t mentioned at all, and so on, and I read often enough about pepper being only an annoying mostly hysterical women). It bugs me when i read something extremly long (exept AU stuff, that’s different of course) with that. But often authors choose that since they can’t use them in their storys or need it that way, and that’s fine. I don’t have to love everything ever written in the fandom..
Also i said I DISLIKE. It’s my opinion, you don’t have to share it :)
Also, I won’t point out said fanfictions in general- it’s mean towards the authors ( I wouldn’t like to be mentioned in connections with “I don’t like something, so here look, I mean those f.e.”)
”where exactly” sounds like my mum is scolding me , I felt a bit slanged at :D
If you’d like to discuss those things you can come off anon and we write a bit, so i can explain better? I dislike talking on anon.